True Friendship:
When Hearts Connect, All Barriers Disappear ЁЯТЭ
True Friendship: When Hearts Connect, All Barriers Disappear ЁЯТЭ
A Special Friendship Day Feature - The Solution Points
Hello my dear friends! ЁЯдЧ
I'm Nutritionist Shivani, and today on this joyful occasion of Friendship Day, I want to share something close to my heart with you - from our The Solution Points - Victory Over The Challenges family.
My Story, Our Story ЁЯТХ
Over the past several years, in my journey as a nutritionist - where both my husband and I live with disabilities and together with our beloved child serve The Solution Points - I've discovered that the people who see us simply as human beings become our truest friends.
These are the friends who:
Celebrate our successes and stand by us during challenges
Neither feel awkward talking to us nor show excessive sympathy
Laugh with us, joke around, and enjoy life together
Most importantly - they learn from us and teach us too!
What is True Inclusive Friendship? ЁЯМЯ
Based on everything I've experienced, I can say that:
True friends are those who:
Recognize your abilities, don't focus on limitations
Become partners in your dreams, don't see you as weak
Want to learn from your experiences, not just help you
Treat you "normally" - because you are just as normal!
Common Misconceptions and Their Reality ЁЯдФ
Misconception: "How do you befriend people with disabilities?"
Reality: Just like you would with any human being! We also watch Netflix, drink tea and coffee, and gossip! ЁЯШД
Misconception: "They only need help"
Reality: We have so much to offer too - experience, skills, love, and laughter!
Misconception: "These friendships would be one-sided"
Reality: Many of our friends say they've learned more from us than anywhere else!
The Magical Effects of Friendship on Health тЬи
Being a nutritionist, I know that good friendship is the best medicine:
For Mental Health:
Reduces stress (and stress causes weight gain!)
Increases happy hormones
Banishes loneliness - which is the biggest disease
For Physical Health:
Provides motivation to stay active
Makes healthy cooking together enjoyable
Improves sleep when the mind is happy
Joyful Stories from Our The Solution Points Family ЁЯОЙ
Priya and Amit's Friendship ЁЯТк
Priya uses a wheelchair, Amit used to be nervous initially. Today? They're gym partners! Amit says, "Seeing Priya's determination, I can't stay lazy!"
Ravi's Cooking Classes ЁЯСиЁЯН│
Ravi can't see, but his sense of smell and taste is amazing! Now his sighted friends learn from him not to rely only on eyes while cooking.
How to Build Inclusive Friendship - Practical Ways ЁЯдЭ
Gradually and Safely:
1. Start with Your Surroundings
Build better relationships with people you already know from college, office, or neighborhood
Stay active in our verified Telegram community - it's a safe environment
2. Find Common Interests
Participate in health and nutrition workshops
Join online discussions (virtual first, then real meetings)
Connect with people who share similar interests - cooking, fitness, books, movies!
3. Build Trust Gradually
Meet in group settings first
Prioritize public places
Be cautious when sharing personal information
4. Respect Boundaries
Honor your own and others' comfort zones
Give and take the freedom to say "no"
Don't pressure - neither for friendship nor for help
Our Approach at The Solution Points ЁЯМИ
Our Safe Spaces:
Verified online community where real connections form
Professional consultations that also create friendship opportunities
Educational webinars where learning comes with bonding
Our Values:
Every person is valuable - regardless of abilities
Mutual respect and learning
Slow and steady relationship building
Safety first, friendship always
Small Steps, Big Changes ЁЯЪ╢тЩАя╕П
Start Today:
Have a slightly deeper conversation with a familiar person
Practice empathy - try seeing from others' perspectives
Set aside preconceived notions
Don't hesitate to ask questions - respectfully!
In Our Community:
Introduce yourself in the Telegram group
Connect during virtual consultations
Share success stories - inspire others
My Heartfelt Message ЁЯТЦ
Friends, my husband, our child, and I - the three of us together are growing this The Solution Points family. Our most beautiful relationships have been with people who have seen us in our completeness.
We've learned that:
True friendship has empathy, not sympathy
The best friends are those who celebrate your strengths
Diversity makes friendship even more beautiful
Let's Create an Inclusive World Together ЁЯМН
Connect with Us:
ЁЯМР Website: www.thesolutionpoints.com
ЁЯУ▒ WhatsApp: wa.me/916307136955
ЁЯУ▓ Telegram community: t.me/thesolutionpoints
ЁЯУШ Facebook: facebook.com/thesolutionpoints
ЁЯУЭ Nutrition consultation: forms.gle/yXVH8CUtYa4jntbaA
This Friendship Day's Special Promise ЁЯМЯ
"I promise that I will see every person in their completeness. I won't judge, won't assume, but will try to make genuine connections. Because the most important thing in friendship is - an open heart and listening ears."
In Conclusion... ЁЯТл
Victory Over The Challenges isn't just our tagline - it's our reality when we have true friends. Friends who laugh with us, cry with us, learn with us, and grow with us.
This Friendship Day, make a new beginning - but safely, slowly, and most importantly - authentically.
Lots of love and Friendship Day wishes to everyone! ЁЯОК
Your nutrition buddy and friend,
Shivani ЁЯТЪ
The Solution Points - Victory Over The Challenges
P.S. - Remember, the best friendship is one where you can be completely yourself. Our community is waiting for you! тЬи